Wedding Traditions – The Salt Covenant


I really love this Tradition.

Its based on Old Time agreements. Apparently once you gave your word on a deal you secured it by taking some salt out of you little salt pouch and putting it into the pouch of the person you were making the deal with.
You could break your word whenever you wanted – you simply had to remove your exact grains of salt from his bag of salt. Impossible.
Your Word was your Word. A vow was a vow. No breaking it.
The Salt covenant comes from this Tradition.
In the Ceremony both the Bride and groom Blend their Salt together. They use the blended salt in their daily cooking. When the salt gets low they repeat the Ceremony refilling the Salt Container and having a constant reminder of their Vows.

The actual Ceremony is as follows:
The Salt Covenant
Now you shall make a Covenant of Salt together.
During ancient times agreements and promises
were sealed by a salt covenant.
Each person would take a pinch of salt from their
pouch and place it in the pouch of the other.
This agreement could not be broken unless an
individual could retrieve their own grains of salt.
But this, of course, is impossible.

Now you have chosen to create a salt covenant with
each other at the beginning of your new life together.

The egg shape symbolizes the full cycle of life,
and therefore encompasses all that you will enjoy,
create, and love in your life together.

Bride and Groom, please now combine your two bags
of salt together in this egg.
This is a bond that can not be broken and is a symbol
of an unbreakable promise of love.

Salt is a good preservative.
It will help you remember that your love for
one another should be preserved for all time.
Salt adds flavor.
We all need a little spice in our lives.
Salt melts ice.
When your heart begins to grow cold you can
melt one another again.
Salt is easily dissolved.
You can remember to dissolve your issues
and learn to work together.

Now use this salt in your cooking until it is gone,
and each time it needs refilled, refill it together.
It is a wonderful way to remember what your
marriage is about.

Wedding Traditions – The Sand Ceremony

The Sand Ceremony is a very popular Wedding Ceremony.
The different color sand in the separate vessels represents the uniqueness and the wholeness of each individual. The Bride has her vessel and the groom has his. Often if there are children involved in the new union they will have a separate vessel of their own.

The Bride and Groom each take turns holding their vessel and speaking of who they are as an individual. Their hopes and dreams and their family and history. Then the Groom has his say.

Then the couple combine their sands into a new vessel. This represents the Union of their Marriage.

When they have finished they both speak of who they are together. What their relationship means. What their shared hopes and dreams are.

The new vessel with the combined sands becomes a very special and treasured family heirloom. It is displayed in a prominent place in their new home. A daily reminder of their Vows and their Sacred Union.

Sedona Wedding Ceremony Traditions

There are so many lovely Wedding Traditions that you can add to your Ceremony to add richness, color and express your uniqueness and your love in a fuller manner.

These traditions come from a variety of cultures and historical times.

A very popular one is the Unity Candle and a lesser known one is the Honey Ceremony.
The Hindus have a lovely tradition called the 7 Steps. The Rose Ceremony is a sweet reminder of your Wedding Day throughout your life. There the Hand Fasting tradition from the Druids and the Sand Ceremony which is colorful and leaves you with a daily reminder in your home of your special day and the vows you made. The Hawaiians use Leis and the native Americans use the Wedding Vase Ceremony.

Then there’s the Wedding Pouch Ceremony which is unique to Sedona Destination Weddings. its a lovely little tradition that we created in the Spirit of creating a Sedona Wedding Tradition tradition found nowhere else.
Its a lovely touch to add a Tradition to your Ceremony.

All of these Traditions and more I will share with you in greater detail in the coming Blogs.